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Mood swing .....
Early this morning at 6am Wati called me to say that atok is not well again and when I went to his room he was sleeping with his legs dangling and in delirium again.Maid don't understand what he wants upon asking he asks for his pants and shirt and want me to put it on his bed"too many people walking in and out he said 'nanti kena curi'...oh oh atok I thought you have been so good the last few days talking normal happenings and now we are back to square one again."
I took his pants and shirt and fold them and put it under his pillow and told its ok now everything is safe he can go back to original position and sleep once more.He thinks he is in hospital keep asking Wati if she found me yet told her maybe I'm upstairs(old ward) and also my sis Ram is there too waiting.
Unfortunately I have to work today as some students are expecting back from field service......I sms my 2 sisters who are here and ask for help if they can come over to keep him company as Wati is unsured should he asks for things thats not familiar to her esp things in history when he has that flashback.
Ram took a halfday and came and stayed till evening and Lina came too but for short while maklum lah today her birthday maybe nak celebrate:)
I hope will be back to his normal self again but its unpredictable whats in his mind!!!
Peek a boo ......
Ready or not here I come ......
Yeah made it ... here I am at last .....
till my next entry .....................
Labels: Atok / Will
posted by Kak Elle at 6:18 PM
19 Comments:
sabar la kak elle...
saya rasa kan... atok tak rasa safe kot.. i mean dia rasa tak comfort dengan keadaan sekeliling dia. kalo nak push dia untuk ingat sangat pun mungkin dia akan rasa stress.
doa adalah senjata ampuh umat Islam.. we're with you kak elle..
sue...
I think he has a lot on his mind tadi my sis suruh dia mengucap he understands terus baca..
berat mata memandang, berat lagi bahu memikul..
semoga kak elle dipermudahkan dalam menjaga atok..
neeza ...
only HE knows what we are going thru' baru je kak elle masuk tengok atok tanya nak minum soya milk dia angguk..happy tengok dia sip the straw...takmo makan:(
Doa kami bersama akak...
maklang...
TQ
bersabar la kak elle.. layan atok dengan baik yg semampu kak elle.. kami doakan kesejahteraan atok dan kak elle sekeluarga..
zino...
kami layan dgn sempurna:)
Memang ambik masa untuk atok sembuh seperti sediakala sebab masalah ingatan yang kadang2 ingat kadang2 lupa , apapun akak dan adik-beradik sedang buat yang terbaik untuk atok, InsyaAllah bertambah baik hendaknya.
My mom is back staying with me now dan dia lebih kurang macam atok..semoga kita tabah dan sabar .
kak elle,
bersabarlah kak elle, doa kami untuk atuk.
Rina...
kita yg menjaga lebih faham keadaan kan?semoga DIA selalu disamping kami yg menjaga nya...
ummi...
kami redha... tak senang menjaga atok yg kekadang bila lupa sound very frustrated but we listen to him and showed our smiles:)
It's very hard for you Kak Elle, I'm sure, but be patience ya... It's part of our responsibility to take care of our parents.
cath...
its now we should look after our parents..they need us:)
Ingatlah balasan nikmat bagi mereka yang sabar, khususnya yang menjaga pesakit. Eh, anak siapa yang comel tu... rasa geram pulakkkkk
Kak Elle, Alhamdulillah, seems that Kak Elle tabah dan sabar sekali jaga atok. Muga dia sihat selalu.
abang long...
:)
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zlaa....
takde pilihan zlaa atok is with staying with me kena lah jaga dgn tabah & sabar.
kak
bersabarlah yer kak.. semoga Atok cepat semboh ..menjaga orang tua ni perlukan banyak kesabaran dan kekuatan kan kak ..
bukannya senang ..
pengalaman melihat ibu saya menjaga arwah nenek saya yang nyanyuk cukup membuatkan saya insaf .. arwah nenek saya macam2 peelnya taoi ibu saya cukup sabar hingga ke akhir hayatnya ...
moga tuhan bersama kita
akak pun jaga kesihatan jugak yer
thanks coz singgah kat blog saya
take care yer kak
kak ilya...
terima kasih atas nasihat ye adik..kami adik beradik mmg menjaga atok dan lagi pun atok tinggal bersama saya so bila kerja maid yg menjaga nya.
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